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Communicating Love at a Distance

Published on January 7, 2012 By Buddy Hodges

Love is a “many splendored thing.” Love is best shared live and in person. Non-verbal communication enhances the whole experience. However, there are many situations in which lovers are not in the same location. Modern technology has provided many channels of communication to bridge the gaps.             The fact that True [...]

How To Make Friends

Published on July 10, 2011 By Buddy Hodges

Making friends is one of the most valuable activities in life, whether measured by happiness, helpfulness, or financial benefits. Making friends usually begins with finding compatible people. In a previous post I wrote about How To Find Friends. Social networking websites have made it easy to find new friends online. Meetup.com even facilitates finding and meeting [...]

Video vs. Text on Social Media

Published on May 1, 2011 By Buddy Hodges

“Everyone” says that video is “the future” on the internet.  More and more websites and blogs use video.  Video email is now a big thing.   It seems that most tutorials are in video format. Video conferencing is “in.”           Credit for the images above goes to the VideoConferencings blog, which states [...]

The “New” Marketing: Relationships Rule!

Published on February 20, 2011 By Buddy Hodges

“Relationship marketing” is a term often identified with network marketing or “attraction marketing.” However, it seems to me that relationships are at the heart of all kinds of successful marketing in the 21st century. Generation after generation of marketers have learned that Love endures and that good service breeds brand loyalty and referrals. Good customer [...]

Attraction Branding and Perceived Similarity

Published on November 21, 2010 By Buddy Hodges

Attraction has been linked to similarity of attitudes, belief, and interests in university research since the 1960′s. Personally, I invested four years in post-graduate research into interpersonal attraction. The implications for social media are profound, because we open to the public intimate details about our attitudes and interests on our Facebook profiles. A recent article [...]

Leads or Leaders? Your Choice!

Published on September 26, 2010 By Buddy Hodges

Sales and network marketing are related but different professions. Of course there are various hybrids and blends.  But for this discussion let’s distinguish between these fields based on their fundamentals. Either profession can be practiced online or offline. I love the internet and the technological leverage. It reminds me of the leverage of networking, which [...]

Sincerity, Similarity and Attraction

Published on July 31, 2010 By Buddy Hodges

A psychological study revealed that out of 400 adjectives that describe personality characteristics, the #1 most attractive was sincere, and the #400 (most unattractive) was phony. People like authenticity. Philosopher James Allen, in his Essay on the Eight Pillars of Prosperity, wrote, “Attractiveness, like genius, is lost by being coveted, and possessed by those who are too [...]

Social Networking may Lead to Love

Published on June 19, 2010 By Buddy Hodges

Love begins with contact, online or offline. I have several personal friends who met strangers online, developed relationships, and have been happily married for a decade or more to persons they met online. One happy couple met playing cards online. Those relationships are worth a thousand other Facebook Friends. The key is that they turned [...]

Social Media and Magnetic Attraction

Published on June 15, 2010 By Buddy Hodges

Attractive personality characteristics, like charm and charisma, normally radiate naturally from the authentic heart of a person. Although charm and charisma are powerful leadership qualities, attempting to display them deliberately is risky. Appearing phony or self-conscious would be counter-productive for a wannabe leader. Sincerity is just as powerful and attractive as charisma.   According to [...]